PERSONAL COUNSELING
While the COMM SKILLS WORKSHOP is virtually a PANACEA for life’s setbacks, there are those
who could use an extra hand. Are you
- BEREAVED?
- RELATIONSHIP TROUBLE?
- WORRIED?
- STRESSED OUT?
- DEPRESSED?
THERE IS MORE HELP FROM PAM.
PERSONAL “LIFE REPAIR” COUNSELING
Lack of self-confidence can make it stressful to talk to people and speak up for yourself. It can mean missed opportunities and anxiety about trying new things—making it hard for you to enjoy life and achieve your goals. It typically comes about as a result of upsetting or stressful events in your life. There are many sources: being in a toxic relationship, a bad breakup or divorce, rejection, failures, a difficult childhood or stressful school experience, being around suppressive, domineering people, a serious illness or injury, worries over appearance or weight.
While these life events can trigger low self-esteem, they are only the surface reason for it. Despite any past attempts to handle, I can actually accomplish this by addressing the underlying reasons that caused you to lose your self-confidence or self-esteem in the first place and then caused it to become a habitual feature of your life.
I have an exact technique that works. I will ask questions and listen. I do not evaluate for you nor invalidate your thoughts, feelings or whatever you are expressing to me. I let you come to your own conclusions and realizations by asking the right questions and guiding you. I also have excellent but simple self-help tools and materials that I coach you to utilize and apply in your life which have proven to give real relief. Together we can stop the emotional roller-coaster and get you back to being yourself. Call me 727 216-5504
MARRIAGE & RELATIONSHIP COUNSELING FOR COUPLES
Is your marriage failing? Are you struggling to keep your relationship from breaking apart?
Has your once happy relationship turned into constant arguing? Or more subtly, have you become silent, distant, or cold, hiding bitter emotions or perhaps unfaithfulness?
My approach gives real relief to couples. Whether you are unhappy, planning to separate, or looking to restore the romance in your marriage, I can help you to put back the love and happiness you may have lost.
The bedrock of any marriage or relationship is the ability to communicate freely with each other. By the time a marriage or relationship is on the rocks, communication has already greatly diminished, or even stopped. Or it's degenerated into constant arguing. Yes, the Comm Workshop helps a lot but sometimes more is needed.
A marriage or relationship is also based on various agreements. These could be minor agreements such as meeting for dinner or what to do on a day off, or major agreements that most relationships have, such as to remain faithful or how to spend mutual finances. If one of the partners breaks an agreement, he or she might feel reluctant or fearful to tell the other partner, causing a drop in communication.
The more broken agreements, the more communication is severed, and the more a marriage or relationship falters, until it eventually disintegrates into a loveless relationship in which the couple have "grown apart". Or it breaks apart completely into a separation or divorce.
If your marriage or relationship has gotten to the point where you can't communicate easily with your partner without blowups, or you're so distant that real communication has ceased altogether, the solution is marriage/relationship counseling that works to restore the love and romance. That's what I do. Call me for a free consultation.
There's a lot of confusion on the subject of relationships, coming from friends, parents, books, even professionals, but the truth is, it is possible to restore your love and happiness and create anew.
Any relationship should enhance the lives of both partners. Those things that make you and your partner frustrated and unhappy in your relationship can be changed. This counseling provides you with the understanding and workable tools to do that.
Through a Listen and Guide approach using science-based educational tools, we will bring your relationship more and more toward your ideal.
What do you wish for? You can have it.
BEREAVEMENT COUNSELING
The loss of someone close to you is devastating and the painful emotion from your grief can leave you finding it hard to cope with life. It can be very difficult to get over the death of a spouse, partner, family member, a very good friend or a beloved pet. Yet, you know that they would want you to move on with your life. How can you overcome your grief and do just that? You can have permanent relief from your grief and feel real relief within days or weeks—not months or years.
This does not mean you disrespect the memory of your loved one. It just means you will be able to look back at that person or pet with fondness and without the painful emotion, and you will be able to experience happiness and enthusiasm for your future once again.
It doesn't require drugs or techniques such as hypnosis. The basis for the power of grief over the mind and body lies in a hidden part of your mind, which is what I am trained to deal with, and together we will gently address and discharge the painful emotion from your loss.
WHY DO PERSONAL COUNSELING WITH PAM?
I use the most effective modern technology there is.
I don't use drugs or meds but instead empower my clients with knowledge and science-based tools to help themselves. The marriage and personal counseling I deliver is fast and effective.
I love helping couples and individuals turn their tears into laughter. And I love helping them find out what is ruining their relationship or their life and counseling them so they understand why and then helping them to fix it.
You can receive a free consultation with me. I have decades of experience counseling people with all kinds of situations.
